Group therapy for our many shared experiencesTumblr (3.0; @femalesoftwareeng)http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ed8a355fb0d3ab2ccf29be293ac6c976/tumblr_mk73huZFpk1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When <a href="http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:w7wHCVfNqecJ:news.cnet.com/8301-31322_3-57431869-256/why-we-need-to-keep-talking-about-women-in-tech">a Dell emcee</a> says “All the great inventions are from men…we can thank women for the rolling pin”</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/46242432596http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/46242432596Mon, 25 Mar 2013 03:28:33 -0700<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7e88a67d49bbd8fb7196ad7162d646c3/tumblr_mk35k16Fzq1s410g9o1_r1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When last week</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/46220865398http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/46220865398Sun, 24 Mar 2013 19:47:13 -0700<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/992da22fea158688a7ea437ff478b02c/tumblr_mjxrf2v1pE1s410g9o1_250.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When the guys behind me are making “<a href="http://butyoureagirl.com/14015/forking-and-dongle-jokes-dont-belong-at-tech-conferences/">big dongle</a>” jokes at PyCon</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/45802746588http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/45802746588Tue, 19 Mar 2013 18:44:28 -0700<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1eaa2389c08e3da93da276314aa2c4ed/tumblr_mji7olCayD1s410g9o1_400.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When a guy at a pyLadies event asks an organizer during open q&a “why is there not a pyMen’s group?”</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/45115170298http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/45115170298Mon, 11 Mar 2013 09:27:29 -0700<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ad0e5bb456f55b979930ecae03e625e3/tumblr_mj79d9tTXF1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I think about working at <a href="http://techcrunch.com/2013/03/04/douchepocalypse-now/">Virool</a></p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44639011477http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44639011477Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:17:52 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9e75aeff63a84841fa3050edda973260/tumblr_mj5wtmhTiS1s410g9o1_r1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I see guys clinging desperately to their <a href="https://github.com/testacular/testacular/issues/376">testicle puns</a> on github</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44580611957http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44580611957Mon, 04 Mar 2013 16:53:11 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/18db484ac4e0ce4a7286bdd5eb2b4e7a/tumblr_mj5i5snojN1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When a stranger sees my <a href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/lesliebradshaw/2013/03/04/martha-kelly-girdler-on-how-to-cultivate-more-female-engineers-and-on-being-part-of-etsys-500-success-story/">Hacker School shirt</a>, walks up to my husband and asks him how he enjoyed his time there</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44555654518http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44555654518Mon, 04 Mar 2013 11:32:33 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/779aa328445e928bb085d0cbcded9f50/tumblr_miqrzpDeoA1s410g9o1_400.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When at my first job ever, my boss said “you’ll tell me if I’m making you uncomfortable, right?”</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44219156016http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44219156016Thu, 28 Feb 2013 07:01:31 -0800<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8ba358268cfc44e5ded572a5cf458f42/tumblr_miqq6cwkFA1s410g9o1_400.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When a guy makes a baseless claim that men are naturally better at STEM</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44141588175http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44141588175Wed, 27 Feb 2013 07:01:31 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9b23f746c1dc19ebd563125c67fd220b/tumblr_miqruuQkxa1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I’m too professional to flirt with my coworkers</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44063546447http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/44063546447Tue, 26 Feb 2013 07:02:04 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/550c13c0708015bcc3acbb2826e31744/tumblr_miqt58hz8f1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When a guy thinks women invading technology will make everything worse</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43984575467http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43984575467Mon, 25 Feb 2013 07:01:36 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f187fb3e21521e8e65a80ca5276d4201/tumblr_miqqnw25Hn1s410g9o1_400.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I see a guy at Defcon holding a <a href="http://singlevoice.net/redyellow-card-project/">red card</a></p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43917630705http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43917630705Sun, 24 Feb 2013 12:13:44 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/bb459988b7e94491c6a1de6ed93f8f62/tumblr_mio0dxyyXZ1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When the 1950s happened to our CEO</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43820616979http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43820616979Sat, 23 Feb 2013 10:48:45 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/17bd950b067e7498eb85fb8e98b76f6b/tumblr_minb1eoyZ21s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I see <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/05/living/super-bowl-ads-notbuyingit">another terrible GoDaddy ad</a></p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43813344694http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43813344694Sat, 23 Feb 2013 09:12:47 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/db05a8ba87c784fab3716c2986246a5a/tumblr_min9bl1VEl1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When someone cracks an insensitive joke in the middle of sensitivity training</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43806723706http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43806723706Sat, 23 Feb 2013 07:36:47 -0800<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/21dc3d86264362f3fc25c1a0a00974ba/tumblr_min8syJ8zW1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I worry more about my code than my hair</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43755510157http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43755510157Fri, 22 Feb 2013 15:19:51 -0800<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1b8532646898ef423b9026cf085dc7ec/tumblr_min8dmQNpo1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When Penelope Trunk says <a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505143_162-47140168/are-startups-better-as-single-gender-affairs/">female cofounders are just distractions</a></p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43752588472http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43752588472Fri, 22 Feb 2013 14:42:28 -0800<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/52a61a86814456b6ba049d2d6b2f8691/tumblr_mikegftKRB1s410g9o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When <a href="http://blog.prettylittlestatemachine.com/blog/2012/10/14/antirez-on-sexism/">Shanley</a> showed us exactly how to respond to bullshit</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43642890883http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43642890883Thu, 21 Feb 2013 05:38:44 -0800<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7009b2908564a538bc57c79cae68eb81/tumblr_mikaizBQMy1s410g9o2_r1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When I find out someone actually had to write an article called “<a href="http://www.slashgear.com/microsoft-forced-to-apologize-for-penis-song-10233068/">Microsoft forced to apologize for penis song</a>”</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43641295428http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43641295428Thu, 21 Feb 2013 04:49:43 -0800<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/239ed2d9607cab9973fad93fa386733b/tumblr_mijx3omzf91s410g9o2_r1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>When <a href="http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5238454">a guy on Hacker News</a> says actually, women are the ones with privilege because of “women and children first” on the Titanic</p>http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43620813661http://femalesoftwareeng.tumblr.com/post/43620813661Wed, 20 Feb 2013 19:59:34 -0800